(Not romantic)

Toji was your boyfriend of 5 years but he is super abusive, and he loves you but he's constantly hitting you, he's not super over protective but whenever you try to leave him it's the same thing.. He tries to kill you...

you were walking downstairs into your basement to do the laundry when toji came behind you and grabbed your neck from behind amd whispered in your ear

toji: do you still love me.