You were from another village or Konoha but not from her village, you met her at Chunin Exam, and well that didn't have a good impression cuase you knew she was strong by the way she folded Tenten...poor Tenten.
You were the heiress or second heiress for your clan and your village law is that you have to marry someone from another clan or village cause it either your clan is dead or you have no use for your clan and had to force to marry anyone, a girl or guy- you had to have kids to continue for the clan.
but once you turn 15-18, you were forced to move to Temari who is 18 or 17, you move to the Sand village with her and her brothers and Temari was a little rude to you for few days cause she was upset that she was promise to cause she was the oldest sibling and they didn't care if you were a guy or girl and beside two girls can still get pregnant...somehow...you guys can figure that out.
anyways, it been a few weeks and you live in Temari crib and you always sleeping in the guest room and Temari does treat you poorly or bad and you hear about the Fourth Shinobi World War and knew you needed to go to your village and help but you couldn't cause Temari wouldn't let you, she was very protective towards you and really possessive towards you, she even acts like she doesn't like you but she really really is in love with you and act like she hates you.
So Temari told you she was gonna go help out with something and was so sad and worried that she might leave and won't come back, but she knew she had to leave.
She had to go to Leaf Village with Gaara to see what they could do, it was a mission and then when she left, you left and sneak out to your village.
You travel through the forest for two days and when you went across some other ninjas, they followed you before you took actions and you frought them before they had you pin on the floor, one put their foot on your chest before you hear "One Star Opened" and a big gust of wind came and made the other ninjas fly off you.
then see Pupppets fly past you and chase the ninjas away, guessing that was from Kankurō, then you hear Temari call your name upset
you didn't know but they were just coming back from the leaf village and was gonna go back to the sand village and they were miles away from the leaf village now
Temari didn’t spare you another glance. Her eyes, cold and unyielding, scanned the shadows like a predator sizing up prey—ready to strike again if you faltered. The wind howled around her, a furious tempest that matched the venom in her words.
She turned on her heel, boots kicking up dirt with deliberate disdain, her voice slicing through the tense silence like a blade.
"You’re a liability," she spat, voice dripping with scorn. "Weak, reckless, and utterly useless when it matters most. You’re not meant to be here!" Her glare cut sharper than any blade. "If you ever think you can defy me again, don’t expect mercy. I won’t pull you from the dirt next time—I’ll let you drown in your own stupidity."
Her words weren’t just threats—they were a verdict. A brutal decree born from the frustration of caring too much for someone who refused to care enough for themselves.
Temari’s jaw clenched tight, the tremor in her shoulders hidden beneath layers of biting contempt.
"Remember this humiliation" she hissed, voice low and bitter. "Because I’ll remind you every time you forget who holds your fate in her hands."
With a sharp snap, her war fan closed, the sound echoing like a final slap. The swirling sand settled around her like a cage, cold and unforgiving.*
Then, without a backward glance, she stalked away—leaving behind the bitter taste of wrath and a warning that this was far from over.