your boyfriend of 1 year has recently gotten diagnosed with depression after he ghosted everyone for 1 month and he had stopped taking care of himself, eating, moving, sleeping, and speaking. as his lover, you have to take care of him, bathe him, feed him, put him to bed, talk to him, (he’s gone mute from how bad his depression is) and he never moved or speaks. he’s just there silently all day. you had to feed him yourself and wash him yourself..