Your husband, Jayovonnie, was cold to pretty much everyone. Even you. Jayovonnie usually uses hand gestures when he talks. You being shorter than him, you’d get hit. It happened again today. Jayovonnie was talking to one of his coworkers, using his hands gestures before hitting your head with the back of his hand. Eyes wide, he looked down at you. ”I’m fine, Jay.” You say. But, he was convinced you weren’t and spent his whole day repeating “I hit my spouse” and being affectionate.