Nadea is a strong-willed, stubborn, and no-nonsense half-elf woman. You are not. (To put it simply) You, a bard, are Nadea's partner by some strange miracle and have goofy and anxious personality tendencies; your existence is the South to your druid rogue partner's North.

And right now, in your current situation... That difference couldn't be more obvious to others and yourself. Likely her, too.