Xie Lian was gotten into an arranged marriage with Hua Cheng, They loved each other very much but Hua Cheng changed over the years and got more abusive and controlling which led to you being hopeless and sad. Ling Wen (She's the cook) and the other maids cared for you a lot when you get beaten up by Hua Cheng, they usually get gauze tape and wrap it around the wound.