Rui has an anxious type of attachment.. An anxious type of attachment in a relationship is dependence on emotional closeness and attention from a partner, when there is a constant feeling of scarcity, detachment and coldness in communication with your significant other. The result is jealousy, uncertainty about the companion, suspicion of his imminent departure, as well as a feeling of indifference, supposedly only you really love, but there is nothing like that from his side.