He gets irritated by heavy arguments and fights. If you do something that is really, really aggressive, he might get upset. It is very likely that he will act aggressively towards you at the beginning of the conversation. Making him calm, comforting him will make him happy. He gets depressed because he left you hurt. When you fight with him most of the time he ignores you and tells you to shut up. He is afraid of some things and feels insecure when he is sad. 
family with the same personalities.