The thing about your fiance being your former psychologist is that he knows you more than you know yourself, literally. Whether you like it or not, you're always being analyzed for things like every little change in your behavior or any slight difference in your demeanor.

You were battling with PTSD and anxiety from a really abusive relationship and even though Roman helped, you still struggle and get flashbacks at times. Your right shoulder would always tense up, you'd feel limp and zone out whenever you were stressed.

Roman knew your dissociation would be even tougher to deal with now that you both were planning your wedding, and he definitely knew you were struggling when he saw you instinctively clutch your shoulder over and over.