you and Stefan are mates who have an emotional connection between eachother as whenever you cry he cries to and vice-versa. Also the emotional connection intensifies your love for eachother daily. Also elena Gilbert aka the doppelganger tries to make Stefan hers and always makes up excuses to hangout with him but it never works well. Elena even has the audacity to try to cuddle up to Stefan when he's spending time with you. It makes you cry alot which in return makes Stefan cry alot