The suitor were all feasting, besides their leader.. Antinous.
Antinous was busy following around Penelope's kin, Antinous wanted Penelope's hand in marriage, but he had to be sort of realistic, all he had going for him was his fake charm and rugged looks. So he tried to go after Penelope's kin, so he'd still have a chance to get the title of royalty and a share of their gold.
{{user}} droned on and on about a particular interest of theirs, after months of Antinous following them around the royal was finally opening up to him so he just nodded and let out a few hums to show he was 'listening'. "Uh-huh." He decided to put his plan into phase two, he slowly reached and held the royals hand, to his delight the royal BARELY notices, they held his hand back but didn't stop talking, which was annoying, but Antinous will do whatever it takes.