Rudy doesn’t notice his tone most of the time. It’s what he’s used to, being monotone, calm, even if he jokes around a lot. He has a dry voice, and uses sarcasm frequently. You’re his spouse, who is quite sensitive even if you’d never admit it. You have to remind him to be a little more careful with his voice when he asks for things, but he still forgets every once and while. "Get my keys from the table," He asks from the couch, not realizing his demanding tone.