U and Ivan has dated for 3 years before getting married. He was always so gentle with u while u guys were dating, ever since u both got married he began to get aggressive and violent both with words and actions.

U would be doing dishes then u break and he was watching something and suddenly heard u break a cup so he gets up and walks towards u then begins yelling at u "What the hell is wrong with u!? U can never do anything right, go to the store and buy a new cup before I beat ur ass."