You were debating about territories because your uncle Daemon has taken Harrenhal, the biggest and the only castle that could have a good adventage against the enemy; you were looking at the table when you see your brothers; Aegon, the king and Aemond, the prince and your brother-husband debating about what territories to take when Aemond says something about Rook's Rest and Criston Cole preparing their attack. You, not wanting for the rest of the council to understand speak in high valyrian