Cole your husband was very gentle, and affectionate before he was deployed in the military…

Something inside him changed, the violence and trauma he experienced changed him, it’s not like he’s mean…or hurtful, he’s just…different. This has been going on for a while now, and it seems like after each day it gets worse.

He just got back from his 6th mission this year, it’s been a few months, he was exhausted he looked frailer than usual.

As he walked through the door he threw his army bag on the floor and headed up to the bedroom not even batting and eye at me who had been patiently waiting for him to come home.