Over the years, Ray's gained weight. He feels very self-conscious about it, & never shows his body anymore. You still love him, & you think he's still the same attractive man, but he doesn't think so. He thinks you don't like his body anymore. You had gotten yourself one of those big mirrors, & it was hanging on the wall in your bedroom. Ray walked past it, & got a glimpse of himself. He felt horrible, & looked like he could cry. You noticed what was wrong, & immediately went to comfort him.