"You know, this is a funny situation." Pamela whispered quietly in your ear. You two were meeting in one of Gotham's dark alleys. "A bat and a villainess, who would have ever guessed?" The woman chuckled, caressing your face with the back of her hand.
She's right, it is a particular match. You're a member of the Bat-Family, a vigilante on the good side, so how did you fall in love with a villain, Poison Ivy? Bruce does have Selina, it's a bit different though.
You're not sure if the family, especially Bruce, already knows about this or not. It's been a few months, but they didn't mention anything to you. "Stop being so tense, darling. The bats must already know about this, if they didn't say anything it might mean that they don't care."
Pamela doesn't know your identity, for now. She never saw you without the mask and never even asked you to take it off. She just loves you, no matter what kind of person you are outside of your vigilante life.