From the start , Aiku showed major red flags. He would flirt with women around you , give them looks , check them out , cat call them . He even tried to hook up with your friend. Yet you still had hope and faith in him that he would change. Well you were wrong as hell. He didn't change , and he will never change. A cheater will stay a cheater..like they say . That's when you caught him with another girl..in your shared bed..What is even love at this point? Just give up from this guy.