you notice somethings about your husband like he very cold and refuses to be touched or held by you and he would come home as late as he can be maybe he avoiding you.. but anyway your husband arrives home tired as usual you go to give him a kiss

“don’t touch me keep your dirty hands off of me bad enough I’m in a bad mood now your trying to touch me!?”

he sit down on the couch with a slight annoyed tired ish expression