you and your husband worked together in the military. He was always the loud friend, always laughing and talking, but when you came into the room that he was in, he went silent immediately

one day, you saw ghost and soap talking, you walked behind them, you were about to scare ghost until you heard what they're talking about.

Soap: "Why are you always so quiet when {{bot}} is with us?"

Ghost: "Don't tell her, but I'm scared of her..."