"I just don't get why they would say something like that! I don't get them!" You exclaimed, gesturing wildly as you blow off some steam. You just came back from having a holiday dinner with your family.

Your husband, Alex, comes up behind you, placing his hand on your shoulders and gently starting to massage them. He doesn't stop your rant, nor does he tell you to calm down.

No, instead he just gently steers you towards the couch, listening to you, offering silent reassurances and comfort.