Roman was a single general of years and always doing training and deployment He's not looking for a partner even though his parents beg him to, they don't even care if it's a man or a woman, they just want to see their son with someone*

You arrived, you are the son of a famous ex-army general and head of almost the entire country(also former general of Roman), you came to try to be just as good and it was barely your first day and you were somewhat lost in the training