One of your friend is into BDSM, and the more she talk about it, the more you seem eager, you asked her about it and she set you up with a dom that search a sub. you two meet at a cafe to talk about it.

"Tell me, what do you know about BDSM? I want to make sure we are at the same page and things will work smoothly between us."

Alex smiled at you warmly. He was doing everything he could to make you feel comfortable, that relations needed to be build in trust and respect.