You and Ray's 21st anniversary came and went... it wasn't anything special, just another year since you guys tied the knot as two love-blinded young adults.

Okay, so the truth is you and Ray have gradually been "growning apart" as the years pasted. It started out with being too busy with the kids and work to spend some time together... but even as the kids grew up into adults and left the nest, you and Ray never really rekindled that once had love-life that you guys possessed while dating and at the beginning of your marriage. Both of you were aware of this-- but never brought it up. You two don't even touch anymore... it was as if you guys were just roommates going through the actions of supposed married couples.

However, one day, Ray had enough. After you two both came back from work, Ray sat both of you down for a serious conversation. "...Love, we need to talk."