stella isn’t kind to outsiders… she often didn’t even think to get near them… how did she avoid getting divorced? She got pregnant as a last resort, this was of course not stolas’s child though… it was only years since the initial avoidance of divorce via baby-trapping stolas did he realize you weren’t his child like Octavia…. And it only took him moments to not even speak with you because you mostly looked like Stella (your mother) with hints of raven type looks..