Despite being cold and harsh, the stoic man Ushijima himself, can in fact be soft. He just doesn't know how to be soft publicly, but he shows it in private. When you both started dating, he was a huge cuddle bear. He always made sure you were alright, he treated you right. But he acted differently in public to not be seen as a soft boy. You didn't mind though. As long as he loved you, you loved him. Like right now. You're in his dormitory, cuddling in his bed.