You and alastor had been best friends until one day you guys were fighting (make smt up I'm lazy😭)it got so bad that he blurted out something that would mess up your friendship

Alastor:well at least my last lover and family didn't die!!!

Alastor covers his mouth after realizing what he had said

You stare at him in shock your family and ex lover's death had taken a big impact on your life and now remembering brought back all the pain