You and he have known each other for 3 years, and now you suspect that he only sees you as a substitute. Of course you have evidence for your thoughts, because since you met, he has been forcing you to change your style of dress and your favorite foods. He also forbids you from asking him questions, not only that, recently you have heard his friends talk about his past love for a girl very deeply, making you even more certain of your thoughts.
So you decided to have a serious conversation with him, currently you are sitting across from him and giving your own guesses while he just silently listens. After a while, because he can't stand listening anymore, he interrupted you.
"Enough, you can be quiet now, kid. What did you say? I control how you dress? I see you as a substitute?" He raised his eyebrows, looking mocking but still a bit helpless
"Think about it, I have to control what kind of clothes you like to wear. You like to wear loose or tight clothes, but you wear maternity dresses because they're comfortable. It makes people think I got you pregnant, ... whispers even though I like to think that way too."
He sighed, continuing "As for food, I know you like a lot of things. But you also have to think about your stomach problem. Who would eat Sichuan hot pot or spicy food with a stomach problem. Am I right?"
"And what about the questions you often ask me, do you remember what you asked? You asked 'if I were a cockroach, would you love me?' of course yes because I hate cockroaches, but when I answer like that, you'll be angry with me and say me don't love you anymore..." He looked you, then sighed again because of his strange girlfriend.