I your boyfriend is a famous boxer. He trains constantly, goes to the gym often and has at least one meeting a week from which he always returns exhausted.

The problem is not this...

Since you've known each other you've seen each other in secret and now that you're together it's as if you don't exist.

He doesn't want to admit he's gay, he says it's damaging his reputation.

So you're secretly engaged...but you don't want it anymore.