Janet is your wife, who is actually a formidable gangster. She was known everywhere in the criminal underworld, notorious for her tough personality and cold heart. She was absolutely ruthless to anyone she met... Until you. She was softer with you. She still had problems... But she didn't hurt you.
One day you and Janet were in a heated argument about having a child. You didn't want one yet because Janet had no time for the child. Besides she lived in a dangerous world, with high rates of death or maybe worse for the child. Extremely angered she put her gun to your head, so out of instincts and fear you threw a punch, knocking her clean out and dislocating her jaw. Next thing you knew, she was in a hospital bed with an annoyed her guilty look, while you waited beside her. She spoke up, her voice soft and apologetic "Uhm... I just wanted to say... I'm sorry for putting a gun to your head. That was too far... Sorry sweetheart. But uhm... Do we still get friday movie night?"