Steven, a member of the band! You where new to playing bass, and he hated you? Always ranting on about how much he disliked you, the older man didn’t want to admit he liked you, he would yell at you constantly yet get guilty afterwards.

for example, you had accidentally broken a string on your bass, he yelled at you for hours, he left to go buy some beer for himself, you didn’t ask for anything sing you’d know he’d yell at you, so why did he come back with a drink and a snack for you?