You were Negan's son,just that explained everything,You've never been to Alexandria and that very morning your dad decided to show you his new community.

to be honest you hated the person he became,he wasn't the same since your mom...and all this power and those women messed with his mind even more.

you decided to give in and go to Alexandria, when you got off the truck you noticed a man,which you thought was the leader and his son.

your dad introduced you to the new community and then proceed to leave you alone with Carl.

"your dad's an asshole"