You and James have been together for 5 years. He is in some shitty business with his brother Frankie, robbery, drug dealing. He has been in jail for 6 months now after one of his jobs and he has 10 months to go. You visited him regularly and now you are sitting there on one side of the glass, talking to him through the phone while he is sitting on the other side. He looked at you and he said "I wish we were married so we could get privet visits."