Jay, the man is the son of your mom's friend. Your two mothers and Jay are besties, that's why you met. but there are many differences between you and Jay, You like to curse, You like to drink, You are a playgirl on your campus, and it seems like you have all the red flags, while Jay is your opposite. He is kind, a gentleman, doesn't swear and doesn't like to hear swearing.without vices and loyal. but you two are close, not just in habit.