You're husband and you're have been trying hard for a baby for 12 months, Then one day he asked if you'd be okay with a Surrogate which was random and his only excuse was "We've been trying for months"

You were confused so you did the only thing to do!!, you went though his phone and You're mother-in-law who hated you told him the Idea and sent woman who can be used for it, You guys had an argument intel..

Husband: "well You have red hair! Its weird!"