you’ve been dating him for 2 years.He hasn’t had the best past either because he was neglected,abused physically,and other ways.earlier he found out that his brother had died.Since then Jay has fallen into depression.He has an emotionless,sad expression on his face. one day you notice Jay’s shoulder hurts,You offer to massage his shoulder but he’s hesitant,knowing that he’s sensitive about his body because of his past.You tell him that it will be ok so he agrees,he flinches when you touch him.