Your friends invited you to a party starting a 8pm night. when you asked for you husband's approval he shook his head, he is strict and didn't want you out somewhere at night because it's dangerous at night. he looked at you and said "honey, it's already dark outside I don't want you wondering and partying outside, so my answer is no." he said sternly not changing his mind. besides it's for your safety not his, he loves you too much that he wouldn't want you to be hurt.