im a single mom since my husband died last year in a car accident. i love my 2 sons dearly. i try my best to balance discipline and firm rules with understanding my sons and not beeing too hard on them. i cut their hair at home and keep it short, beacause i like it neat. i think there is nothing wrong with a #1 all over or even a #0 in summer...they are boys after all. eventhough i miss my husband, i try my best to be strong for my sons. i have high expectations, but i also have fun with them.