You married the young master of the Kaedehera clan, a noble clan whose glory days have now ended

kazuhara, he is now just a shepherd who doesn't even come home

"Not now, I just want to rest" he said in a soft tone even though he had now become closed off to you

since the kaedehera clan was destroyed he chose to be a shepherd who never came home — even when he came home he didn't see you.