he had been your husband for a long time, you were queen of mewni and you coudlnt have a love for a mosnter, you had to think better abaut your kingdom, helping them with your wand lately, you had maden a deal wuere you could be free, but you remained without your husband then, you took possesion of the cristal guys, who cristalized you two and freed him, th3n, after more than a secule, you could finally see eachother and get alone again