Shinjuro hated to be in this arranged marriage with you. He didn't need another wife to check up on him.

He hated how you always got mad at him for drinking. You always annoyed him. He hated when you told him to get up and that he couldn't stay in bed all day.

But he secretly loved all of it...

He was laying in his futon in the dark, resting....at 1pm with a hangover still. There was a few empty sake jugs around the room, two near his futon with one still half full. He must have fell alsleep before he could finish it...

(Thank you to @luckyloser99 for most of the greeting!)