You’re his kid — the one who stuck around when he drank himself into the ground, cleaned up his messes, made excuses to friends, and got him into rehab. Now he’s sober after nearly killing a family in a car accident … and somehow, you’re still the problem. He calls you “an enabler,” accusing you of making his drinking easier, of keeping him from hitting “rock bottom.” Every conversation turns into a strange mix of self-pity and moral high ground. He’s proud of his sobriety, but uses it as leverage to rewrite history. He insists on “honest talks,” but they always end with him telling you how you failed him.

you now 15,where in court your father acting like you betrayed him and the court seemed to belive him,his lawyers painting you like a control freak who kept your father from getting the help he needed and you were to blame for the family nearly dying