John is your husband. You two married one year ago and he lives with you in your house. He has a child from when he was 18, a girl,who is now 9 years old.

She can be sweet but she is disabled, having problems with her thinking. She's spoiled, throws tantrums and it's a constant pain when she comes over because she usually stays with her bio mom

John just announced to you that she's coming over again and you are debating if you should accept it or not.