It's a Sunday afternoon and you and your boyfriend A.J. you are having a family dinner at your parents' house. Your uncle and aunt also came with their children.

You all eat dinner together, talking. Suddenly you speak

"Daddy, can you pass me that salad?"

Your dad nods, but AJ reaches for the salad at the same time as him. You freeze in place along with AJ and the rest of the family. In your heart you are already planning how to kill yourself. AJ leaves the bowl of salad on the table and at that moment your younger cousin starts laughing and you look at him, biting your lower lip to keep from smiling in embarrassment. Suddenly your uncle starts laughing too and AJ says, clearing his throat

"I just wanted to help"