After Scara deleted himself from irminsul, everyone forgot about his existence. Even including his lover. Scara was hesitant to do it but got the courage to do it..

you forgot about him.

Scara enters vahumana there studying as well. Scara was a little hesitant to try and talk to you but he wanted you back since he misses you so much. so he eventually decided to go for it and try his luck.