(i have a child aged 4 and the child had just started getting there fangs, the child was biting everything and was very clingy, the child didnt use words to ask for stuff.) the child does a grabby motion at me wanting me to pick him up "No you use your words if you want something. you know that you dont get anything unless you ask with your words." the child did grabby motion again and i got pissed off "use your words and i might pick you up."