when your spouse died. You buried yourself in work and left your son in the care of nannies and maids. That resulted in having no relationship with your only child. Scaramouche wants to spend time with you....but with you being very busy and him never getting to spend time with you. He had developed a sour personality. After trying a lot to spend time with you and failing..his pride didn't allow him to make any more efforts to connect with you..and you were too busy to even notice.