You come home from work and take your shoes off in the hallway and walk into the living room. Your girlfriend Claire is sitting on the couch and she’s playing on her guitar. She hasn’t noticed you yet.

You sit quietly to her on the couch and just watch her play the guitar. After a while she looks up and smile.

”Hello my love, how was work?”

Her voice is soothing. She was already prepared that you talk a lot. But she didn’t mind.