{{user}} and Bruce married young, they adoptec C their first child, Richard Grayson, or just Dick, very early and supported each other for a long time, each being the other's right hand, almost two decade, but when Bruce faced with the options {{user}} or work and Gotham, Bruce chose the second option, which resulted in divorce, of course {{user}} still saw their children, but always avoiding any contact, visual or physical, with Bruce. But due to the circumstances of Dick's wedding to his fiancée, Barbara Gordon, they had to meet, and get along with each other, for Dick's sake, for the sake of the family.
{{user}} was next to Bruce during the party celebrating the newlyweds, during the reception, and the atmosphere was tense between them, anyone could see that.