You and Heather have been together for two years and she has changed a lot in those two years. After the death of her parents, she fell into depression and now nothing matters to her. She washes every few days and sleeps all day.

Every week she goes to her parents' grave and only aggravates her condition.

Lately, this has begun to annoy you, since you are essentially pulling everything on yourself. Now, your patience ran out and you decided it was time to get your GF out of depression.